What to Expect
A series of expectations is laid before us in these opening verses.
What is the point of all this? Well, in Prov.1:2 one of the points
is to know what people say: when you hear declarations or pronouncements
made, when politicians give speeches, when educators issue statements,
when your child brings home homework from school that has someone's
opinion laced throughout itwhenever you hear something said, you
ought to be discerning. If you are a wise person, you'll be able
to cut through to what's true and reject what isn't, to label
things for what they are and not be caught in schemes others devise.
One of the things that studying this literature does for us is
to make us capable of discerning sayings of understanding, to
be good listeners.
Proverbs 1:3 suggests that we ought to be able to act rightly
as well, not to just think and listen with discernment. We'll
receive instruction in wise behavior, in righteousness, justice,
and equity. So we become people who know what to do in any given
situation; we know what is just, what is righteous, what pleases
God. We are able to bring balance, we're able to think of alternatives
and act in such a way that other people are helped and God is
honored by our behavior, and we're not caught in things that are
wrong or destructive.
Proverbs 1:4 talks about having something to teach those who are
naive, who have not grown yet, who come behind us.
Proverbs 1:5 reminds us that this process goes on throughout a
lifetime. We never cease learning. The acquisition of wisdom is
an enterprise that will never become obsolete. There is always
more to see and deeper purpose to gain.
After this series of expectations is laid before us, Prov.1:7
announces the heart of the book. "The fear of the Lord is
the beginning of knowledge; fools despise wisdom and instruction."
This statement is repeated (with some differences) in Prov.9:10.
It is also mentioned in the Psalms, and Job gives us virtually
the same sentence. This announcement must be understood and agreed
with in order for everything else to make sense. If you don't
begin here you won't proceed anywhere worth going. Prov.1:7 makes
two very important points, one to believers, those who are expected
to be in agreement with what they're learning here, and another
to those who are expected to be in disagreement.
Heart of the Lord
The first statement, to believers, is that the fear of the Lord
is the beginning point for knowledge, wisdom, growth, and understanding.
It is not acknowledgement of the Lord that is the beginning of
wisdom, nor enthusiasm for the Lord. It is not even gratitude
to the Lord that is the beginning. Those are all good things;
they are commended elsewhere in scripture. We should acknowledge
God in everything. We should be enthusiastic about the person
and work of Christ and the character of God. We should be deeply
grateful for all that we've received. But learning to live life
skillfully, being able to go out into the real world and knowing
how to get along with people, how to handle money, what makes
a marriage work, how to raise your children, how to be a good
neighbor, how to effectively enter into all the ordinary stuff
of which life is made, requires as the beginning point fear of
the Lord.
We should have an abiding concern that we never do anything to
displease the Lord. That's what it means to fear the Lord. There
is no setting aside of our God or his purposes. He cannot be contained
somewherein the church, Bible study, or prayer meetingand excluded
from our day-to-day lives. And the notion that he might not be
pleased should weigh heavily upon us. Hebrews 12 is a powerful
statement of this point: "You have not come to a mountain
that may be touched and to a blazing fire, and to darkness and
gloom and whirlwind...But you have come to Mount Zion and to the
city of the living God, to the heavenly Jerusalem..." (Heb.12:18,22.)
It's a serious enough business to go to Mount Sinai. But in fact
you've come to Mount Zion, the city of the living God, to thousands
upon thousands of angels in joyful assembly, and the blood of
Christ. "Therefore, since we receive a kingdom which cannot
be shaken, let us show gratitude, by which we may offer to God
an acceptable service with reverence and awe; for our God is a
consuming fire." (Heb.12:28.) It is that sense of the importance
of all this; it should matter to us that life is important to
God, that we are important to him, that he knows, understands,
and sees us. That's the essential beginning point to the acquisition
of wisdom.
Regard For Rewards
There's a good reason for that. The book of Proverbs and indeed
all of the wisdom literature in the Bible explicitly and regularly
talks about rewards that you can expect for the choices you make.
If you learn to live wisely, the legitimate expectation is that
you'll live long, you'll be more secure, you're likely to do well
financially, you're apt to have better friends, your family life
will be more pleasant. We're told later in Proverbs that the world
was created with wisdom. This beautiful woman, Lady Wisdom, is
the handmaiden of God. Everything in creation conforms to what
is wise, and as we get in line with the way things really are,
we learn to avoid pitfalls, we don't do stupid things, we don't
make a mess of our lives, we choose good companions, and so on.
Therefore, life becomes more enjoyable. But let me again warn
you that every time you read this kind of material, the easy temptation
is going to be to look forward to the advantages. I want to be
wise because I want a happy home. Then the focus becomes the happy
home. And then the happy home should be happier than it is, and
we don't want difficult or unpleasant people around. We focus
more on isolation and self-fulfillment, become ingrown, and so
forth. The problem is that we will want the rewards instead of
the One who gives them. We'll begin to appreciate the creation
more than the Creator. We begin to settle into appreciation of
the rewards and forget the whole beginning point, the whole consuming
fire, the nature of God and his sovereignty. That's why the essential
starting point is fear of the Lord.
We must look beyond wisdom literature and remind ourselves that
our God has the right to make us insecure if he chooses, to put
us in danger. He has the right to require of us things that are
difficult and unexpected. We can't hold on to anything too tightly.
And if we fear the Lord we may either receive the benefits or
not as seems best to him.
Now the second part of Prov.1:7 is also very important. It is
addressed to those who are not expected to be persuaded by this.
"Fools despise wisdom and instruction." The point here
is that there is no plan B. There is no alternative source for
wisdom and instruction. And that's a very important point as well
because most modern humanism, most intellectual arrogance has
as its assumption, "I can grow wise other ways. I'm smart,
savvy, aggressive, and capable." But the alternative to the
first line in Prov.1:7 is foolishness and the rejection of wisdom,
not discovery of wisdom elsewhere.
A Father's Word
I want to introduce the father teaching his son in this passage,
or to be generic, the parent teaching a child. It's really one
generation passing on life to another generation here. I think
it is helpful to focus on fathers and sons, though, because even
the secular world today recognizes the absolutely desperate fatherlessness
of children taking place in this country. Prov.1:8-19:
The content of the father's message is extraordinarily helpful.
His first word to his son is the observation that sometime in
adolescence the offer will be made to him to join some sort of
peer group that will give him identity and a sense of power. He
goes on to say early gratification down this path leads to eventual
destruction. Now the wonderful thing here is not just what the
father says to his son, but the fact that he's saying it. It's
the fact of the relationship, with time taken for communication,
that saves the son as much as the practical content of what he
says. Both are important. This is a father who has chosen to love
his son, and his son will listen because of that relationship,
and the specific advice is therefore helpful.
We must look beyond wisdom literature and remind ourselves that
our God has the right to make us insecure if he chooses
The first offer made by the dangerous companions is power. That
appeal is really what explains the dramatic concern even among
secular people for boys who don't have father figures, especially
those in urban settings. Boys without access to healthy models
and opportunity for experiencing competence have tremendous insecurity
inside. And insecurity, fear, and powerlessness cause these sorts
of offers to look attractive. The first offer is just the sheer
possibility of violence. "Come with us! We can hurt somebody,
some innocent victim, somebody who's weaker than we are."
There's a sense of power that goes with being able to be violent.
One of the blights on modern society today is youth gangs that
exist everywhere. They are growing at a phenomenal rate. They
represent exactly this kind of band of companions that is described
here, and one of the things they exist for is to commit violence
because it feels powerful.
The second offer made to the young man is that he'll get rich,
which is another form of power. They'll steal what they don't
have and glory in what they acquire.
The last appeal is that there will be a community of them; they'll
all be in it together.
All of these offers will be attractive to a young man, a boy who
doesn't have some other insight as to where to gain personal authority,
power, and inner security. A healthy way to gain them is from
your father who has taught you how to be a man.
Wisdom in the Streets
The last section of chapter 1 introduces us to a woman. Let's
briefly consider Prov.1:20-23:
In Proverbs wisdom is always figured as a woman, Lady Wisdom.
Now the writer of Proverbs at this point is setting up this woman
in direct contrast to the band of companions that have been speaking
to this youth. This adolescent boy is bouncing along in life,
trying to make sense of things, and he hasn't had a lot of experiences
yet. He runs into this group of thugs, who say, "Come join
us. We'll all be in this together. We'll beat people up and steal
money, rampage, and commit violence." There's a lot of energy,
excitement, and connectedness. But then you have this other individual,
Lady Wisdom, saying, "Come listen to me," only what
she offers is the opposite of instant gratification. She is saying,
"Come and listen to my reproof, my correction. It's going
to be a lot harder, and the payoff won't come until much later."
The interesting thing to me is that both are in the street. The
gang clearly is, but so is wisdom. This is not some kind of religious
truth that you go into a religious building or a circle of believing
people to hear things about God that have no application. This
wisdom is practical. Wisdom is out in the streets, and she says,
"Come here, I can teach you how to live. I can talk about
how to make your way, how to make choices. I can teach you to
be a man. I can teach you to be strong, capable, and effective
in the real world. But it's harder to learn, and you're going
to have to admit that you're a fool sometimes. You're going to
have to learn some hard lessons." So the father is saying,
"Listen, son, you've got one group over here offering quick
gratification, but the end is destruction; or you've got another
companion who will walk with you for the rest of your life."
That is why the book of Proverbs is so helpful; it talks about
real life, real attractions, real temptations, and real struggles.
A Father's Lesson
I spent yesterday with a group of men and their sons from this
church and other churches. Once a year the Christian Service Brigade
has what they call Father-Son Team Day. You go away for a day
and have archery contests and canoe races, throw Frisbees through
hula hoops, and so forth; games (including Bible verse memorization)
you play with your son to get points. At the end of the day there's
a speaker who talks about how God figures in family life. It's
a very healthy provision in this busy society for a father to
get away with his boy.
There was one man whose boy and mine were in the same age group,
so we kept going to the same events at the same time. I stood
next to him a few times and started talking to him. He made it
clear right away where he stood: "I'm not religious, my ex-wife
is the religious one. She talked me into coming up here with him."
He was very leery about memorizing the verse, "They that
wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength..." It was
overcast, the wind blowing, and freezing cold, yet he wore big
sunglasses the whole day. The guy didn't seem to want anybody
getting too close, and he didn't want to look like he was getting
into the spirit of the day.
Then we came to the archery session. It turned out that he was
quite accomplished at archery. Now his son was a very slightly
built, skinny guy. Every time the wind blew he seemed to rattle
a bit. This kid could barely pull the bow back, and his dad was
giving him a lot of instruction. The first time he fired the bow,
the arrow went over the bale. But by his third shot he actually
scored a perfect bull's eye, right in the heart of the target.
And his father just melted.
It seemed very clear to me, watching them, that they didn't get
to interact very much. The kid was nine years old, the parents
were split up, the mother was raising the boy, she was religious,
the father was not. He and his boy were kind of trying to make
it work, but there wasn't any kind of easy camaraderie between
them. But in this one experience the father had taught his son
something, and the son had learned it. They suddenly became favorites
to win the trophy for the archery event. The rest of the afternoon,
he was a different guy because he had had the experience of giving
something to his son. Archery might not be a skill you use a lot
in life, but he got to be a real father. And his son appreciated
him. His response to the other men began to change. He began to
be open to the possibility of training his son in other things,
even expressing some interest in the spiritual side of life.
We live in a dangerous world. Many of us have hurting families
and weren't given a lot ourselves. We don't want our children
to suffer for our hurt. We want to become good parents, good neighbors,
good workers. Hopefully we'll take advantage together of the wisdom
that is provided in the book of Proverbs, beginning with fear
of the Lord, not only for our sakes but also for the sakes of
people who are on the outside looking in.
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