For by the grace given me I say to every one of you: Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought, but rather think of yourself with sober judgment, in accordance with the measure of faith God has given you. Just as each of us has one body with many members, and these members do not all have the same function, so in Christ we who are many form one body, and each member belongs to all the others. We have different gifts, according to the grace given to us. If a man's gift is prophesying, let him use it in proportion to his faith. If it is serving, let him serve; if it is teaching, let him teach; if it is encouraging, let him encourage; if it is contributing to the needs of others, let him give generously; if it is leadership, let him govern diligently; if it is showing mercy, let him do it cheerfully.This passage is about fitting in with one another, being members of one another, each contributing to the another. The essential point is that we are now free by the grace of God to think of ourselves accurately. The tendency of every one of us without renewed minds is to be more impressed with ourselves than we ought to be. We have fantasies in which we are the star of the show and the key contributor to every situation. We have relationships in which we feel misunderstood, our greatness going unrealized as people fail to comprehend the very magnificence they are walking by. This can be done, of course, from the negative side too---we feel hurt and set upon, we have lists of people who have rejected us, and we spend our time thinking negative thoughts about ourselves because of what other people have done to us. But then, too, we allow ourselves to be the star of what goes on in our minds, as if it were a reasonable thing to spend that much time either praising or putting ourselves down; we are still saying, "I'm worth all the attention."
Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good. Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Honor one another above yourselves. Never be lacking in zeal, but keep your spiritual fervor, serving the Lord. Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer. Share with God's people who are in need. Practice hospitality.What is being added here is passion. Paul's first point was to be sober-minded. One of the things you need to do in order to be able to look at yourself clearly is to settle down a bit, and then look hard at what you see in the mirror and agree with God about who you are. But now what he is adding to that soberness is a calling to love one another in a way that is essentially passionate, in which relationships are not shallow and commitments don't fade. Listen to the energy and passion words here: "Hate what is evil... Be devoted to one another... zeal... fervor... joyful." He wants us to not only think clearly but to be engaged from the heart with the people around us, to be deeply committed to them, to care what goes on with them, to be able to walk in their shoes and look at life from their perspective, to have their burdens matter to us as much as ours, to be drawn out of ourselves, to weep and mourn and rejoice, and to pray fervently.
Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse. Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn. Live in harmony with one another. Do not be proud, but be willing to associate with people of low position. Do not be conceited.
Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everybody. If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.There are men and women, organizations, and philosophies that are evil and destructive. If you are a parent, you will have had conversations with other parents about the things you fear for your children. There are serial killers who have completely seared consciences and kill people for no other reason than that they love blood and violence. But what we must not do, if we are going to think with renewed minds, is to fight back and hurt them as much as they have hurt us or are attempting to hurt us.
Do not take revenge, my friends, but leave room for God's wrath, for it is written: "It is mine to avenge; I will repay," says the Lord. On the contrary:
"If your enemy is hungry, feed him;
if he is thirsty, give him something to drink.
In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head."
Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.
"If your enemy is hungry, feed him;Jesus turned the other cheek, prayed for those who persecuted him, and gave to those who attacked him; entrusting himself to his Father rather than fighting back. That is what we are being called to do as well. We are called to wish good even to people who mean us harm. It is an extraordinary calling and one that I confess is much easier to talk about than to imagine myself doing on a regular basis. But the motive of revenge, hurting those who have hurt us, is something the Lord intends to take from us. A renewed mind will think of a way to be a blessing rather than to attack.
if he is thirsty, give him something to drink.
In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head."
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