I spent a lifetime looking for you.The more I think about this quest for meaningful human relationships, the more I want to change just one word in that song. For in reality my friends, and certainly I myself at times, are looking for life in all the wrong places. If you live in this world you have been tempted, and may have even fallen into the temptation, to believe that life is fully experienced when you have obtained a few good friends, a good husband or wife, children, or certain pets. Many around us are looking for life in the relationships they hope to find through the New Age movement or the hundreds of self-help groups that are offered in this community. Others are looking for life in the relationships they could develop by joining a certain sports program and becoming a member of a team. There are hundreds of clubs offering some form of life in this community. And many are looking for life in churches that reach out to the lonely. On a recent vacation in Israel I was reminded once again that within the three major religions---Christianity, Judaism, and Islam---many have all succumbed to "a form of godliness [religion], although they have denied its power." (See 2 Timothy 3:5.) Those who focus on ritual, dress, culture, legalism, etc. are really looking for life in all the wrong places.
Singles bars and good time lovers were never true.
Playing a fool's game, hoping to win,
And telling those sweet lies and losing again.
I was looking for love in all the wrong places,
Looking for love in too many faces.
Searching their eyes, looking for traces of one I'm dreaming of,
Hoping to find a friend and a lover.
I'll bless the day I discover another heart, looking for love.
So when Jesus came, He found that he had already been in the tomb four days. Now Bethany was near Jerusalem, about two miles off; and many of the Jews had come to Martha and Mary, to console them concerning their brother. Martha therefore, when she heard that Jesus was coming, went to meet Him; but Mary still sat in the house. Martha therefore said to Jesus, "Lord, if You had been here, my brother would not have died. Even now I know that whatever You ask of God, God will give You." Jesus said to her, "Your brother shall rise again." Martha said to Him, "I know that he will rise again in the resurrection on the last day." Jesus said to her, "I am the resurrection and the life; he who believes in Me shall live even if he dies, and everyone who lives and believes in Me shall never die. Do you believe this?" She said to Him, "Yes, Lord; I have believed that You are the Christ, the Son of God, even He who comes into the world."Martha's first words to Jesus in those moments of grief were, "Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not have died." This does not seem to be a rebuke, but rather a comment on reality filled with grief. If Jesus had been there four days earlier when their brother's life hung in the balance, they would have had the hope of his healing Lazarus from his deadly illness. You can hear in her remark the disappointment and confusion over what some would have called the untimely death of Lazarus.
Martha replied, "I know that he will be raised up in the resurrection at the end of time." Jesus replied, "You don't have to wait for the End. I am right now, Resurrection and Life. The one who believes in me, even though he or she dies, will live. And everyone who lives believing in me does not ultimately die at all. Do you believe this?
"Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death,We are encouraged by the story of the great prophet Elijah, who on the last day of his life on this earth saw a chariot and horses of fire and was taken up into heaven in a whirlwind (see 2 Kings 2:11). And then seven hundred years later there is the story of the transfiguration of Jesus. When he stepped into eternity and assumed his former glory, he talked with the risen Elijah, as well as the risen Moses, who had died fifteen hundred years earlier, about his forthcoming Ascension (see Luke 9:29-36). We get more hope after our Lord's own physical resurrection from the grave: Paul wrote to the Christians in Rome, "Now if we have died with Christ, we believe that we shall also live with Him, knowing that Christ, having been raised from the dead, is never to die again; death no longer is master over Him." (Romans 6:8-9.) Finally, Jesus in his great prayer before the cross said, "And this is eternal life, that they may know Thee, the only true God, and Jesus Christ whom Thou hast sent" (John 17:3). We can draw the conclusion that if you place your faith in Jesus Christ, you will never lose consciousness when you die physically. You will be continuously aware of his presence, love, and power. The difference is just that you shed your "tent" and put on your "mansion" (2 Corinthians 5:1-5).
I fear no evil; for Thou art with me."
And when she had said this, she went away, and called Mary her sister, saying secretly, "The Teacher is here, and is calling for you." And when she heard it, she arose quickly, and was coming to Him.Mary also fell at Jesus' feet and cried out, "Lord, if You had been here, my brother would not have died." Both sisters used the same words, but Jesus saw that Martha's faith needed to be increased, while Mary's heart needed to be comforted.
Now Jesus had not yet come into the village, but was still in the place where Martha met Him. The Jews then who were with her in the house, and consoling her, when they saw that Mary rose up quickly and went out, followed her, supposing that she was going to the tomb to weep there. Therefore, when Mary came where Jesus was, she saw Him, and fell at His feet, saying to Him, "Lord, if You had been here, my brother would not have died." When Jesus therefore saw her weeping, and the Jews who came with her, also weeping, He was deeply moved in spirit, and was troubled, and said, "Where have you laid him?" They said to Him, "Lord, come and see." Jesus wept. And so the Jews were saying, "Behold how He loved him!" But some of them said, "Could not this man, who opened the eyes of him who was blind, have kept this man also from dying?"
"He was despised and rejected by men,The word weep here is not the one for wailing; these were real tears from our High Priest who knows our hearts, especially at moments like this.
a man of sorrows, and familiar with suffering."
(Isaiah 53:3.)
Jesus therefore again being deeply moved within, came to the tomb. Now it was a cave, and a stone was lying against it. Jesus said, "Remove the stone." Martha, the sister of the deceased, said to Him, "Lord, by this time there will be a stench, for he has been dead four days." Jesus said to her, "Did I not say to you, if you believe, you will see the glory of God?" And so they removed the stone. And Jesus raised His eyes, and said, "Father, I thank Thee that Thou heardest Me. And I knew that Thou hearest Me always; but because of the people standing around I said it, that they may believe that Thou didst send Me." And when He had said these things, He cried out with a loud voice, "Lazarus, come forth." He who had died came forth, bound hand and foot with wrappings; and his face was wrapped around with a cloth. Jesus said to them, "Unbind him, and let him go."Jesus, still deeply moved within his spirit, came to the tomb, a cave cut into the hillside just like the one he himself would be placed in some two miles away and a few weeks later. When he requested that those around the cave remove the stone, Martha stepped up and reminded the Resurrection and the Life that really her brother had been dead for some four days, and if they removed the stone the smell of death would be overwhelming. They all stood there in pure hopelessness. Jesus needed to remind Martha once again to stop thinking about the corpse and place her faith in him. The death of her brother had happened so that the Father and the Son would be glorified, so that the disciples would mature in their faith, and so that many would come into the kingdom.
Many therefore of the Jews, who had come to Mary and beheld what He had done, believed in Him. But some of them went away to the Pharisees, and told them the things which Jesus had done.
"I would have been proud of having an abortion. I didn't happen to get pregnant, but if I had, I would have had an abortion in a minute. I would have seen it as a revolutionary act in which I declared my independence."
"I stood up," says Frederica, "and I was a Christian..."To make a long story short, Frederica is now the director of Real Choices, a research project of the National Women's Coalition for Life, a coalition of 15 organizations whose combined membership includes more than 1.8 million women.
"I am the resurrection and the life;
he who believes in Me shall live even if he dies...."
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